The parties were married in May 1998. They have a minor child who was born in the United States in January 2003. Both parties are enlisted members of the United States Army currently on active duty at the same army base located in the Republic of Korea, where they have been stationed since September 2003. On or about October 24, 2005, the father commenced the instant divorce action. A New York Family Lawyer said prior to commencement of the divorce action, the parties executed a marital separation agreement which was negotiated and prepared by their respective Judge Advocate General (JAG) attorneys. With respect to child custody, the agreement states that the custody of the minor child shall be shared jointly. The couple agrees that although the child may reside with the wife, both parties shall exercise joint care and control of the child and both parents may visit said minor at any and all reasonable times and places. The Non-Custodial Parent will provide 72 (seventy-two) hours notice before visitation. If less than 72 (seventy-two) hours notice is provided, the Custodial Parent will permit visitation if she/he is able to reasonably accommodate such visitation. The couple represents and agrees that the welfare of the child shall be the major factor governing all aspects of child custody and visitation rights and it is further understood that nothing shall constitute an abandonment of the said child by either of the parties. The couple agrees to consult one another with regard to any and all major decisions affecting the health, education and welfare in the best interests of said child.
The wife is the Custodial Parent. The husband is the Non-Custodial Parent. The Custodial Parent agrees to consult with the Non-Custodial Parent on such matters as major medical treatments and selection of schools for the child to promote the best interests of the child. A New York Custody Lawyer said the Custodial Parent shall exercise final determination over the matters.
The separation agreement also provides that the Non-Custodial Parent shall have the privilege, during visitation periods, to take the child home or on outings and excursions and with the Custodial Parent’s prior consent, can visit the child in their home. The couple also agreed to be flexible in their visitation arrangement, to endeavor to resolve all visitation conflicts in good faith and to make all reasonable efforts to accommodate the schedule of the other parent. Moreover, failure to reach mutual accord on a requested adjustment shall not constitute justification for the Wife or Husband to delay delivery of the child beyond the above schedule. With regard to potential visitation disputes, the couple reserved the right to petition a court of competent jurisdiction to resolve the issue with the goal of maximizing the time with both parents in order to carry out the intent of equal shared child custody; provided, however, that no modification will be implemented unless both parties agree or a court of competent jurisdiction so orders.