In Nicole L. v. David M., 195 A.D.3d 1058 (N.Y. App. Div. 2021, a case of guardianship of a child after the mother’s passing, the Family Court of Columbia County faced a complex situation involving multiple petitions from interested parties. The court’s decision hinged on determining the best interests of the child and addressing claims of abandonment and extraordinary circumstances.
While New York courts favor parents having custody of their children, for a variety of reasons, parents can be denied custody. One reason is abandonment. Abandonment occurs when a parent demonstrates a clear intent to relinquish their parental rights and obligations, often through a pattern of conduct that involves a lack of contact, support, or involvement in the child’s life.
The New York courts recognize abandonment as a serious issue that can detrimentally affect a child’s well-being. According to Social Services Law § 384-b(5)(a) and Domestic Relations Law § 111(2)(a), a parent may be deemed to have abandoned their child if they fail to visit or communicate with the child, demonstrating a disregard for their parental responsibilities.